BLOSSSOM & FLORECER 2020

One Day Catholic Women’s Retreat

BLOSSOM & FLORECER 2020 Photo Gallery & Retreat Summary

(scroll down to learn about your virtue bead bracelet and to see photos from retreat)

Jesus thirsts for our Love! #WearePhotina!
He said to her, "Will you give me a drink?" John 4:7

SUMMARY OF THE TOPIC OF THE RETREAT


It was great to hear from Troy in our 1st talk about Photina, the Samaritan Woman, who encountered the love of Jesus at the well and experienced a profound conversion that changed her life and spurred her on and enabled her to grow in virtue. She is a model for us of prayer and growth in virtue. When we encounter God’s love for us in prayer, we will want to grow in virtue as a response. In the 2nd talk Mike taught us about Redemptive Suffering and what growth in virtue looks like when we encounter suffering and difficulties. In the 3rd talk Carmen gave us a plan to grow in virtue as a fruit of a relationship with Christ; and lastly, in the 4th talk, Mike showed us what evangelization can look like as a Catholic. St. Photina is a great model of evangelization. You can read about her life in your retreat program on pages 30-31.

Reflection by Geneva Tigue:


As I knelt at the well on Saturday’s retreat, I immediately felt the depth of the well. It surpassed the floor, the earth, and my comprehension.

This depth, as the Lord showed me, was the depth with which he wanted to take me. I saw my soul as this same vessel, reaching deeper into the abyss than I could imagine. He wanted to go so deep into me that it was like a never-ending well. Likened to the same well at which I knelt.

I still, though it has been a few days, see this well before me as I call on the Lord. He is still there and he wants to go deep into each of our souls. He wants to take us deeper into his will, which is love and mercy itself.


As many spiritual writers say the "well" can represent God's love and His desire is that we do our part (correspond with his invitations) to "dive more deeply into the well of God’s love" (Matthew Leonard).Our relationship with God is subject to the law of growth and should continually become ever deeper and more perfect.

Ordinarily, when we first experience a conversion and desire to follow God's will 100%, although we have a sincere intention of giving ourselves definitively to Him - we have not yet realized a full and total surrender. In reality, we still have many inclinations, tendencies and affections not wholly under God's sway. There is still much of "self," which is not totally submissive to God, not entirely sacrificed to His Love. Each day should mean progress in growth - in surrender to God's love - until every single fiber of our being belongs to Him.

God calls us in a progressive way. If we are faithful to His first invitation, others, increasingly pressing and definite, will follow, which will bind us more and more to Him. Through the various circumstances of life, and especially through new occasions for sacrifice, God repeats this invitation to grow in His love, more precisely, more definitely, each time letting us see how far the gift of self must be extended in order to reach the total gift of self. If we are faithful, and answer these progressive calls from God with generosity, He will continue to send new invitations, until we belong completely to Him.. Let us strive everyday to adapt out lives more and more to God's will for our lives.

LEARN ABOUT YOUR VIRTUE BEAD BRACELET HERE



Let's all make a commitment to use our bracelet to help each other grow in virtue!

Growing in virtue is very, very important because it makes our souls fertile soil for the Holy Spirit to work more effectively in our lives. The more facility in virtue we possess, the more easily we will discern the Holy Spirit's promptings and the more promptly, and whole-heartedly we will respond:

This is where your bracelet comes in. Our Blossom Team made it for you with love and we prayed for you as we made it (all 320 of them :). Each bracelet consists of 11 beads and could be used in many different ways to grow in virtue (as you grow closer to Christ at the same time). Here are a few:


1. One decade rosary - There is a bead for the Our Father prayer and 10 beads for the Hail Mary prayers. You can use the medals or a knot for the Glory Be Prayer.


2. To assist in forming a specific virtue - on pages 47-50 of your retreat program there is information about "The Virtue Focused Year" and 6 different virtues (work on one per month) with suggestions on how to grow in them. As you complete each action suggested pull a bead towards the cross as in the pictures above.


3. A Novena of No's - You can offer this novena for someone in need of prayers or for a specific intention. Try to look for 9 ways to say no to yourself (this does not have to happen all in one day) and as each one happens pull a bead towards the cross and say something like, "Jesus, I offer this 'No' for..." . For example:

  • No to the cookie I wanted to have;

  • No the diet coke I wanted and will have a water instead;

  • No to hitting my snooze button in the morning;

  • No to complaining to my friend about something;

  • No to leaving the dishes in the sink until tomorrow morning.

  • No to stewing on a hurtful comment

  • Etc.

4. A Novena of Yes’s - You can offer this novena for someone in need of prayers or for a specific intention. Try to look for 9 ways to say yes (this does not have to happen all in one day) and as each one happens pull a bead towards the cross and say something like, "Jesus, I offer this 'Yes' for..." . For example:

  • Yes to the favor that someone has asked of me.

  • Yes, to the dishes I see in the sink that need to be done

  • Yes to a need that I see that I can fill (meal for someone, clean up a mess at work that I didn’t make, pick up garbage outside, etc.).

  • Yes to getting up a little earlier to spend time in prayer.

  • Etc.

5. A Novena of Kind Acts - offered for someone or for a specific intention. Try to look for 9 acts of love (this does not have to happen all in one day) and as each one happens pull a bead towards the cross and say, "Jesus, I offer this for...". For example:

  • Pay for the driver behind me in the drive-through line

  • Send flowers to someone anonymously

  • Prepare a meal for someone in need

  • Wipe off the wet sink in the public bathroom at church

  • Etc.

6. Follow requests of Our Lady of Fatima & the Angel of Peace
To understand the messages of Our Lady of Fatima & the Angel of Peace we have to understand the following: When Jesus died on the cross, He did not take away suffering in this life; instead he entered into it & gave it meaning. He made our suffering redemptive when it is united with his suffering. Jesus is inviting us to help him rescue souls with our sacrifices and suffering: “Then Jesus said to his disciples, ‘Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me’” (Matthew 16:24; see also Colossians 1:24; Mark 10:38-39; 2 Corinthians 4:17).

Summer of 1916: While the three shepherd children (Lucia 9 years old, Francisco - 8 years old & Jacinta - 6 years old) were playing near Lucia’s house, suddenly the Angel of Peace appeared to them and asked: “What are you doing? Pray, pray very much! The Most Holy Hearts of Jesus & Mary have designs of mercy on you. Offer prayers and sacrifices constantly to the Most High God. The hearts of Jesus & Mary have a mission for you.”

Lucia asked the Angel: “How are we to make sacrifices?”

The Angel replied: “Make of everything you can a sacrifice, and offer it to God as an act of reparation for the sins by which He is offended, and in supplication for the conversion of sinners. You will thus draw down peace upon your country. I am its Angel Guardian, the Angel of Portugal. Above all, accept and bear with submission the suffering which the Lord will send you."

This message is for us today! What can you offer as a sacrifice? For starters,

  • You can offer your daily duties according to your state in life (e.g. married, single, student, job, family, etc.). Do them with all the love, devotion, professionalism and diligence that you are capable of and offer them to God as a prayer for the intentions that the angel requested. Pull a bead for each one as in the pictures above.

  • After that, you can offer what you:

  • do not like

  • did not choose and/or

  • cannot change.


Accept each one with trust, pull a bead as in the pictures above, and offer it with love as a prayer of reparation & intercession for others.

7. Use it to count indulgences offered for the Holy Souls in Purgatory (my personal favorite). We have countless opportunities to gain indulgences for them each day and gaining them is a beautiful way to grow in virtue as you help your brothers in sisters in need. Learn more about indulgences here and The Manual of Indulgences here and The Handbook of Indulgences here

HOW TO HAVE A PURE AND UNDEFILED HEART
by Fr. Jacques Philippe


The struggle for purity of heart requires keeping one's heart free from anything that can harm it by causing it to lose its capacity for love. This is true especially of negative thoughts: judgments, bitterness, sadness, worry, etc. Scripture points to a strong connection between the heart and thought, and speaks often of the thoughts of the heart. Thought gives direction to the heart and determines actions, which is why it is important.


Jesus says, There is nothing outside a man which by going into him can defile him; but the things which come out of a man are what defile him. It is not the things that come to us from outside us that do us harm, but our interior reaction, starting with our thoughts. It is unavoidable that we should react negatively to sufferings and deceptions and shocking events of all sorts. but it is imperative that we not give free rein to these thoughts, not dwell on them, but should displace them with positive thoughts of faith, hope and love. This is an essential aspect of the spiritual struggle...
Suffering easily becomes accusation, bitterness, judgment, pessimism, discouragement, worry, etc. This, not suffering itself, is what darkens the soul and causes harm. Thus, in difficult times we need to keep our hearts pure by tending to our thoughts. It is certainly not easy, but it is necessary. In particular we should be vigilant in regard to judgmental thoughts about others and anxious thoughts...

Here is a consideration that may make this struggle easier: The Beatitude Happy are the pure of heart because they will see God could be turned the other way around: Happy are those who see God, for they will keep their hearts pure. The most powerful safeguard of a pure heart is the spirit of faith by which we see God's hand in everything that comes to us...This is what the saints did, and made them free! In a letter to her sister Agnes, Therese of Lisieux compares herself to a weak reed, but one that "cannot break since, no matter what happens to it, it wants only to see the gentle hand of its Jesus."

How to Heal Wounds

How to Heal Wounds (part 1 & part 2) by Fr. Chad Ripperger (Exorcist Priest)
Excellent series of two homilies that he gave on this subject. You won’t want to miss watching these. We are all affected by wounds in our hearts, minds and souls and might not even be aware of how much they affect us. Christ has provided the way for us to be healed - naturally and supernaturally. Learn how to become free from the effects of wounds by watching the two videos below:

Checklist for Sanctity. It is Doable!

Below is another homily and it is also excellent! You will love this and will see how much the Lord is already at work in your life and may even recognize new horizons to grow in virtue or recognize ways in which the Lord has been nudging and inspiring you.

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